The reason you hear about security flaws in newer cars with OTA updates is because research on unpatchable cars is regularly silenced. Multiple friends of mine who thought it would be fun to look into bluetooth security in cars have had their work shut down by law enforcement and teams of lawyers, and told to back off.
I'd estimate that at least 90% of cars on the road without OTA updates are vulnerable to some sort of Bluetooth based attack that will never get fixed. Your "write enable" trick does more harm than good in these scenarios.