LA, my hometown is full of people who simply don't want to do anything. They have a nasty tendency to introduce chaos, and not appreciate anything done for them.
One of my elder male relatives lived with his mother up until he was 50 and she died. He then immediately purchased a new truck , took out high interest quick cash loans against the home and lost everything within a few years.
You don't want idiots like this in your life. Once I moved to Chicago I had no trouble finding fantastic friends and an amazing partner with a great career( real life only, I've never meet anyone online with a job) . You become the people you surround yourself with.