Movies just have higher dynamic range where the lounder part is not suitable for home use if you adjust the volume to have the voices at "normal volume". The "problem" exists even if you have proper surround sound systems (obviously, surround sound systems would have it better due to better channel separation, but the volume issue is still there).
Don't get me wrong, I agree that movies released on home media should have a mix that is more balanced (compressed) in loudness. Just that the problem isn't related to the setup of the speakers.
I don't enjoy that even/especially at the cinema. Why do they do this? I don't need to hear gunshots and explosions at full real volume.
You need hearing protection when shooting for a reason.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Comb_filter
The effect is more noticeable in an acoustically dry room where there are few reflections filling in the notches. A real center channel eliminates this source of comb filtering.
This isn't a new idea; the very first movie with multi-channel audio used a real center channel:
>The tests showed significant improvements in word recognition using a separate center loudspeaker when compared with a phantom center image between a pair of loudspeakers.
What works for me is a passive hardware mixer in front of my 2 channel power amp.
I take the line level center (mono) and main (L/R) pre-out signals from my hdmi receiver, and mix them on the passive mixer.
This gives full control over the center level mix without actually having a center speaker (I have just a pair of stereo speakers)
I also set dynamics to minimum to keep dialog and special fx at roughly the same volume level (instead of constantly riding the volume control during action scenes)
Took some time to tune it, but I’m really happy with the setup now!
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Googling around a bit, others complained too.