Well, they went with a simpler approach earlier, with AMP. AMP couldn’t make any literal guarantees about UX or performance, but in comparison to the mobile experiences reading articles before it, it did seem to often be an improvement.
And of course, people hated it, for numerous reasons. You could just make pages faster and less annoying by using plain HTML, obviously. The problem isn’t that anyone knew this, it’s that most of the big publications DGAF, and they were the entire point of AMP as far as I can see.
There are many reasons to dislike the way AMP was executed, even if they did eventually rectify many of the serious issues... but the AMP cache concept in combination with the soured reputation probably spelled the end of it no matter what would happen next. AMP for E-mail doesn’t really have any of those problems, so I suspect AMP will probably live on in e-mail.
But Google does definitely want to push sites towards better performance and users towards better performing sites; they simply have a mutual interest in this, I don’t think most people would dispute that. Even just in general, but especially when new Android phones are not packing the same punch as new iPhones are... so that scroll jank is going to hit a lot harder.
Lighthouse is generally good. It actually discourages a lot of things that people already thought were bad ideas, even ideas from Google. It tends to score plain HTML pages very well, and if it does catch a snag on something you can usually at least work around it. It provides decent diagnostics for how to optimize a web page. It does have some issues, and that will contort people into doing otherwise silly things. But if the website in question chooses a metric in something like Lighthouse in a way that is detrimental to their UX, chances are they just never gave a shit about UX to begin with.
While I don’t want to come off as a shill, and I also don’t want to come off as accepting Lighthouse just because it’s “less bad” than AMP, I just think that the “abuse” here is less substantiated. Although there are edge cases where Lighthouse can be silly, it does generally force you to make leaner pages. I think it makes a decent measure of performance. As long as a few points on Lighthouse is not make-or-break for SEO scores, and I doubt it’s that sensitive given the variability per-run, I think this is actually a good thing.
Search engine metrics are always imperfect. Anyone familiar with Wikia/Fandom can understand how its subpar content can overshadow much better community-driven websites due to its SEO position, and that is even in spite of what an awful, slow, ad-ridden pile of shit it is. I’d be delighted to see it Page 2’d over Lighthouse scores. But that’s just my feelings on the matter. I’m sure there’s more to it than that.