You digress, but you're onto something here. I suspect I'm not the only one who cringes at bloated packages and sometimes rolls my own alternative.
I'm all for re-using code when rebuilding the wheel would be a hassle but it has to be balanced with proper code review before it should be included. Developers are much too quick to include outside code with the assumption that other people have already done the necessary reviews and this is where a lot of devs are getting bit.