I am telling you that "They also refuse to open source their server software." is false.
https://github.com/signalapp/Signal-Android/issues/11101#iss...
Among the official reasons given was staying ahead of spammers. In this instance it was also speculated that the payment function which they were building into the server was to remain secret.
https://github.com/signalapp/Signal-Android/issues/11101#iss...