Some of the first actions of the Taliban in these new government centers has been to take over the radio stations and stop playing music. Its happening already.
We gave them a society where they can enjoy music, culture, and attempt to gain literacy and education. It didn't last, but its clearly an improvement over the 90s-era Taliban. Whether the people remember that moving forward will be another question.
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We pushed too many of our values upon the Afghan citizens. We were pushing for literacy, women's rights, democracy. But they would have been satisfied with far, far less (and having fewer moral qualms would have allowed us to ally up with more of the warlords who were in fact, competent, at security. Unlike the paper-soldiers we assembled).
But I don't think any of our values are in the wrong. It may be only temporary, but I assume the citizens will remember the difference in life one way or the other.