I’m not suggesting that corporate enforcement of behavior is the best way to go. But we should obviously do it for things that are proven to work before we do it for things that are untested.
You could use the same words to state that hetero marriage is "proven", when realistically, people didn't have the choice.
They say this about a lot of things, but it’s hard to imagine a worse “target metric” than marriage.
I’d argue we lean too heavily in the direction of thinking everyone should figure life out by themselves with no external pressure. This hurts young people, who lack experience and the benefit of hindsight, and less intellectually gifted people, who may lack judgment and impulse control.
People these days indeed actively give destructive advice. Thinking of abandoning your stable long term relationship? “Follow your heart!”
If you want to teach these lessons, teach them through the education system.
I'm not really sure what you are implying here. Can you give some examples of this power for power's sake behavior? Everything that I can think of has a plausible even if misguided motive.