Someone always has power. You either have a say in who that is and what they can do to you, or you don't.
There are few example of states that lasted for some time without a regular civil war and mountains of corpses. US is one of them having only had one mountain of dead civil war in 2 hundred plus years. However it seems to approach crystallization state. Try opening a business in place like SF and NYC to see the final form of the monster. Nothing can be abolished and state just grows till the what was a necessity becomes a parasite.
And if I'm being frank, what I see peering over the modern landscape is that the state is little more than a puppet for corporate interests, protecting malefactors from retribution while allowing them in turn to exploit the trust of people that the system isn't stacked. More or less it's a dissolution of the rule of law that consolidates power into the state through that means, and producing what is more or less a completely unruly class which is allowed at length to exploit everyone.
I suppose you're arguing the Hegelian perspective, but I assert the apex of man or the geist, is precisely that which is described in anarchist utopian literature. It's also corroborated inexplicitly by Popper in "The Open Society and Its Enemies" towards the end. Failing to assert position that leads us to continued systems of oppression and a constancy of ennui within the zeitgeist, and a zeitgeist itself which is quite probably unhealthy as it inherits inertia and in being resistant to change it is constantly misdirected which we see everywhere constantly.
I don't think that will work, either. A company like Intel couldn't exist based on small networks. It requires massive scale.
Back in the 70's the car manufacturers British Leyland was handed over to the unions. They abolished management and made decisions collectively. In the end, they realised that that kind of system couldn't work, and brought in management.
Checks and balances may work to some extent. Power structures usually emerge. There's always going to be an elite class.
A great essay called "The Tyranny of Structurelessness" was written by Jo Freeman, a feminist no less. https://www.jofreeman.com/joreen/tyranny.htm I urge everyone to read it. It will really shape your perspective.
It seems to me that pure anarchist societies are inherently fragile and that power structures will inevitably emerge.