My youngest (sophomore in college) has gone through some hellish personal issues over the past 4-5 years and checks the first two boxes in the title. This behavior has gotten pretty bad recently and I’m really struggling trying to get across how this behavior is perceived by others. I have some of the same traits in that when i was younger i would just leave during gatherings until people started calling me out in it.

This puts a different spin on it that might help me find new ways to help her see it objectively.