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I don't see the problem with leaving when you're ready if that's before the party's over.

Not "overstaying your welcome" goes both ways. It is legit to feel "I'm done here", say the thank-yous, and go.

I don't understand. I'm open to understanding the other side of the coin.

By 'younger' I'm talking in my 20's and early 30's, and the gatherings in question were at my house. :)

Fortunately my wife had the social capacity for both of us (and then some) and patience with my quirks.

If you trust your guests - or have trustworthy friends over - there's nothing wrong with playing a video game or going to sleep before the party is over. I did that on a few parties which I hosted in university and I don't think anyone had strong feelings about it. I mean they still have each other to party so one guy less isn't much of an issue.

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