A magnetic field can have very large intensities without creating problems, so that is the reason why we use electromagnetic motors and not electrostatic motors.
The maximum magnetic field in a motor is normally limited by the saturation of the ferromagnetic materials at values where the density of energy in the space between the stator and the rotor is many times higher than the density of energy at which an electric field would cause electrical discharges.
Electrostatic motors can be useful (and they are actually used in certain devices) only at microscopic sizes.
To make it work you have to distribute electrical potential along all the "motor". Just like biological muscles do with protein configurations. We just aren't technogically advanced enough to build such metamaterials ourselves.
This creates lots of engineering and regulatory challenges for product development because, as the esteemed William Osman says, "Welcome to the world of high voltage, where everything's a wire and you're probably going to die" [1].
[0] https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1002/advs.201900...
At a certain charge value, and at a not very large one, the surface electric field will exceed the breakdown field of air and a corona discharge will start.
See St. Elmo's fire.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/St._Elmo%27s_fire
So unfortunately the idea of using the repulsion forces does not work.
To prevent the discharges, the entire environment around the 2 charged moving parts would have to also be charged with the same sign, but then the repulsion forces between your parts would be balanced by the repulsion forces from the surrounding medium.
This increases several times the breakdown field compared to air but it is not enough to reach similar energy densities like with magnetic fields.
To give some numbers, the air breakdown field is around 3 MV/m, while the maximum magnetic field in a motor might be up to 2 Tesla.
The ratio of the energy densities is the square of the ratio between the product of the magnetic field with the speed of light and the electric field, i.e. the square of (2 x 3 x 10^8) / (3 x 10^6), so 200 squared, i.e. 40 thousands.
Even if you increase the breakdown field 10 times, which is quite hard to achieve with fluids, the magnetic field would give forces much, much higher at a given size.