Yes, it hits in waves and every wave should be handled properly. It is pointless to compare totals. It is important to understand what can be done better and for that it makes sense to analyze each wave separately. Sweden miserably failed the first one and did not really care about others. Other Scandinavian and Baltic countries fared much better but could not continue to make perfect choices. Baltic is at the moment totally messed up by their poor vaccination rates.
But if you insist to compare totals, here is small list. Not really 10x difference but close.
Deaths per 100000
Sweden 144
Denmark 46
Finland 20
Norway 16
For sure, there are countries with even worse outcome. Still presenting Sweden as some kind of success story makes me sick.