Isnt bsd's tcp stack single threaded?
https://www.cl.cam.ac.uk/teaching/1516/ConcDisSys/2015-Concu...
I run FRR Routing punching 400gbit+ @ 75% CPU load on FreeBSD 12.
On the same hardware, Debian fell over at 1.8gbit.
I have been using FreeBSD for networking for awhile now but not at those levels