You seem to be creating the very "vile place" that you are complaining about.
Oof. Pot, meet kettle.
Do you hear yourself speak
> "fundamentally advocated that violence was acceptable"
Fundamentally all authority is based on violence. Actions create consequences and force is the last resolution available. It may be excessive, harmful, destructive, chaotic, and all manner of similar adjectives but it doesn't change the fact that violence is a core component of society and used to enforce all the civility you've come to expect.