My living space isn’t that big, but I’ve got a great office at the job. Big desk, big screens, giant whiteboard, and it’s just around the corner, so commute is minimal.
So for me, remote is an upgrade in terms of infrastructure. For you, it is obviously a downgrade.
How many people who hate remote work have a Herman Miller Aeron vs a wooden kitchen chair?
How many who love remote work went from an open office vs a private office?
I love my 4k display, my standing desk, my keyboard, my Aeron Chair. However, I doubt that if those were offered it'd be reason alone for me to go back to the office.
But, if that commute was 45 mins, or if I had a larger living space and a worse onsite location, I can guarantee that my opinion would reverse.