Then you haven’t thought very deeply at all.
https://astralcodexten.substack.com/p/please-dont-give-up-on...
https://astralcodexten.substack.com/p/please-dont-give-up-on...
Besides that, all of the arguments that are presented seem to start from the perspective that having children should be the default. The author makes no claims that the world will be a better place for them, and therefore I see no reason why anyone would want to bring more suffering into the world, and cause more harm.