a) They aren't necessarily the biggest bottleneck now
b) Even if they were a bottleneck, we still often have network transit time to account for, making DB access still relatively dog slow.
This doesn't even take into account the entirely different set of arguments that other languages like php and python are an order of magnitude faster than ruby 1.8 (and ruby 1.9 is faster too) and that Java is considered by many a horrible language, and no speed increase in the world would make them willingly use it.