Or, they send out probes for science, because only humans have the insatiable appetite for destroying each other.
Chimpanzees 'go to war', and so do some non-great ape species like ants and termites. Interestingly, some ant species conquer other colonies and essentially 'enslave' the defeated worker ants using pheromones. It stands to reason that belligerence would arise elsewhere in the universe because it has on Earth several times.
It is unreasonable to assume aliens are anything like us.