I don’t think you have a lot of experience with long software projects. The pros of frameworks are outweighed by their cons pretty quickly. This effect is accelerated by shorter support times and an ever growing number of frameworks.
Netflix: https://netflixtechblog.com/building-the-new-netflix-experie...
Facebook: https://blog.risingstack.com/the-history-of-react-js-on-a-ti...
Edit: find out what framework (although it didn’t work on some urls I tried): https://www.wappalyzer.com/
[1]: https://medium.com/dev-channel/a-netflix-web-performance-cas...
Some of the popular open source frameworks are derivatives of what these companies had already developed internally for themselves, e.g. React.