I think it's a bit harsh on the OP. This is an ex-work network and we are all allowed to vent. Having said that, however I feel the OPs frustration is probably unwarranted, the market is as seller-friendly as I have ever seen ( and I have been doing this for more than 2 decades).
I don't have a simple answer for you OP, other than to keep pushing and networking. It's just a matter of time...if you are determined enough.