You should go into this with a take-it-or-leave-it approach and call the shots so that it's what you want, and not what they want to give you. But you'll have to get a standard position from everyone of your partners, and the only way to do that is to say NO to dealing with individuals. The reason is divide and conquer. That's another thing they'll do.
Also DO YOUR RESEARCH. Who are the buyers? Can they give you personal guarantees to pay you even if what they're doing does not work out? Who is this mysterious competitor? Why didn't you know about them when you started your project? Again good lawyers will help you out here.
So form a company, set your equity, get the best legal advice there is, and do not have multiple positions on your side when you go into negotiations. Be prepared to walk when you don't get what you want.