Instead we can alter it and fix this problems: Bob will find out his crush’s public key, encrypt "you are my crush" message to it and post it with his own signature to public bulletin (blockchain can be good shelling point). When crush decrypts message they will see proper string, while everyone else will see gibberish.
- to solve problems with key distribution we can use "identity based encryption". it requires trusted third party (e.g. school administrators) but it solves problem for key generation of participants. With identity encryption bob can encrypt message to some canonical identity such as school email. Owner of that email can prove it’s identity to the third party and receive corresponding private key.