GNOME 3 and 4x aren't just "different". They are simply bad. GNOME 2 was different, and it was amazing. I remember letting my mother using my computer in the late '00s and even though she was absolutely terrible with computers she figured out how to use GNOME 2 in like, 20 minutes. Applications? Click on applications. Where is the download directory? Just click on Places.
Sadly GNOME isn't alone in this trend though, no one except KDE Plasma gives a damn about UX anymore.