For all the implications you are making about “move fast and break things” in web dev, at least newer tech stacks makes it easier to not completely break your data structures cuz the abstraction ceiling made doing things the right way hard.
Of course experienced C programmers “get it”, design their code in a way to avoid these pitfalls, and can right performant, correct code. I just think that it’s easier with a lot of other tools for stuff that’s just a bit complicated