Are optical coatings that sensitive that warm water might bother them? I'll have to treat my lenses differently.
Is that really your experience where you live? In mine, the cold tap is cold - once allowed to run through whatever's in the pipes in the building, since it's come from underground.
I've lived places where in the winter, the tap water is just a couple of degrees above freezing. I've lived in places where in the summer I've measured the tap water at over 90 degrees.
He must live somewhere that doesn't get to any real temperature extremes.