This just isn't true of the SF Bay Area. When you look at the very top, like Harker, Nueva, etc-- salary may slightly edge above public school pay for some portions of the scale, but is still behind when you consider total comp.
> appreciation (and to a some extent social status, at least within a certain circle)
I feel appreciated and valued by our parent community, and I do not feel like there are many that look down their nose at me. (And, given my background, I'm just kinda amused by the group that do).
I also have total "easy mode" when it comes to behavior management. Students that don't even know me come into the room predisposed to think I have important things to say and to work hard.
> A very high percentage of private schools are not good, though
Oh, believe me, I know about the crummy sectarian schools, and the crummy for-profit "highly academic" academies. I am not talking about that. (I don't think many of these are very good teaching environments, either...)
> private schools are less beholden to any one parent than public schools are
This is very complicated and probably out of scope for this discussion.
> and are much better positioned to firmly tell them "no"
Once you have a wait list, this is true.