May I suggest to spend some time working as a trainer? I'm sure you have a ton of knowledge to share, and learning how to structure it for delivering a class is not difficult.

Training is (if your understand the content) not so stressful as working in consulting or developing, and you meet a lot of interesting people.

It comes with its own burden, of course, but it may work as a way to find time to better understand what you want to do in the future.

Also, the salary is pretty good.