Maybe M12 is that, but it looks way more expensive at first glance. Possibly more laborious to connect/disconnect, too, with its screw-locking? Seems to be better for applications where a secured connection is more important (transportation is mentioned).
And yeah, the 1000base-T pin ordering seems unusual. I'm curious about the history there, because even 10base-T (where I thought Ethernet for Twisted Pair begun) had this really weird pinout, which does not support my initial theory that it was because Ethernet kept progressively adding more differential pairs: https://www.arcelect.com/10baset.htm It may well be because they added the original two pairs to a pinout that already carried something else, but the diagrams don't say what those other lines were for, so if anyone knows...
According to those same diagrams, though, it seems to be more common to split up the pairs than not, which now makes me wonder if there is any benefit to that?