It's literally less information versus directly letting them know. One message lets them know you know, and the other doesn't.
> Forcing the fraudster to call if they want more information - excellent.
But there's something else you're not taking into account, which is innocent people who trigger your fraud detection.
>Cussing - doesn’t make a difference either way from an information perspective.
Well it certainly lets the fraudster know you know. A legitimate customer receiving that kind of abuse would be pretty unusual, don't you think?