Looks like things will be getting ugly Wednesday afternoon.
How about hitting the road before that to be ahead of the mess?
Monterey and Big Sur are great, but just getting home seems like a better idea.
Even if you can't leave Tuesday, you did say you had planned for Monterey on Wed. So leave early Wed, cruise down I-5 and you'll be at the grapevine with time to spare.
If "I-15" is shorthand for "395 to I-15", I would recommend against it. Cold snow after wet snow is a manor avalanche condition. It would be unlikely to hit you of course, but the roads may become impassable in ways that are far worse than I-5.
Stay safe. Leave early.