what do you hate about pandas so much? I miss it dearly now that I don't use Python anymore
I found RedFrames [1] recently which wraps Pandas dataframes with a more consistent interface, it's probably what I'd use if I had to write data transformations that had to be compatible with Pandas.
The problem is that it's a huge pile of hacks, exceptions, anti patterns, and regressions.
The API is inconsistent, loose, full of obscure options added as quickfixes.
[1] https://dplyr.tidyverse.org/ [2] https://juliadata.github.io/DataFramesMeta.jl/stable/