I feel you, but the laptop can be order with an M2 Max for 64gb+ of RAM. There is no M2 Max Mac mini.... M2 Pro goes up to 32gb.
I don't need much CPU on the Mac (the arm transition forced me to get an x86 linux box in addition to it) but my ram needs are 24-30 Gb on average. 32 Gb is not future proof for my usage, 48 might have been.
All they need now is to cancel the Studio and make the only option a Mac Pro starting at 6000 :)