Well I wish it was as easy as changing your operating system. The truth is, that living in a small city, in a third-world country, makes it hard to find people with hobbies aligned with yours, especially if you have uncommon hobbies.
Once you've found one you suddenly have access to a sizable colony. It's easy once it's your priority. Try finding them over internet.
Not much point seeking for them by visiting ordinary parties since they rarely attend these.