Surely you can see that these are not parallel situations. “Making fun of the straights” is a different thing entirely than telling trans people they’re evil and messed up.

> you're literally the devil and deserve to be fired from your job, banned from social media, and if they had their way, sent to the mines.

This is a funny complaint, since vast swaths of America have this exact sentiment towards trans people.

> but the second you point out things like the word "gender" being coined by a pedophile called John Money whos human test subjects eventually both committed suicide

When trans people and trans-friendly people get mad at statements like this, they're usually getting mad at the insinuation that they somehow bear some responsibility for Money's decision to force a boy to live as a gender he didn't identify as and the consequences of that decision, when all of them oppose deciding someone else's gender for them and many of them are suffering the consequences of similar decisions made against them.

> or that sending children to drag shows with very obvious sexual elements and undertones is evil

I've seen some accusations like this. Every time, the drag show has turned out to be completely G-rated, and they're offended at the lie that they would expose children to sexual acts. In many cases, it was the act of drag itself that was the supposed "sexual element".

> or that chopping off their penises or breasts won't help them and instead creates chronic illnesses and increases depression

Genital surgery for transgender people has one of the highest satisfaction rates of any surgery of any type. Additionally, lurid phrases like "chopping off their breasts" is often used as an incoherent rebuttal against other, much less invasive treatments, like hormone therapy, puberty blockers, or even social transition, where they are entirely inappropriate and irrelevant to the discussion.

> We don't "validate" people suffering from schizophrenia by telling them that their trees are indeed talking to them about the little green aliens in their attic, so why "validate" other mental illnesses in similar ways?

We do not "validate" people with schizophrenia like that because it does not improve their happiness or well-being. We do affirm transgender people in their identity because it does improve their happiness and well-being, as shown in multiple studies on the subject.