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A part of those who are not able to get a partner may solve their problem by "just" meeting women, but for many, there are significant psychological issues.
There's a point where, if your life sucks enough and you don't have the social skills to hide it, you can be stuck in a bad place with no obvious way to get help.
Maybe paying for a therapist will help, or maybe you won't have the money, the waiting lists will be too long, your country's healthcare system will limit you to wrong matches. If this way doesn't work, what's your next step?
Out of curiosity, what changed?
- I traveled, met people who had had a much better life and way more success, and basically got angry/ashamed enough that mine sucked that I got motivated to change it,
- I cut ties with a couple friends/family members who had issues of their own (that they refused to work on),
- I'm a competent tech worker, which means no money issues, less stress, social contact through school/work, and the morale boost of one part of my life going right at least,
- having a few good (now remote) friends who helped me navigate through things.
People who stay in bad situations probably don't have most of these things. GGP doesn't seem to know how hard it can be to fix this. Years after the bad times, I still have some social/emotional issues. And these were mild problems.
What do you expect a guy who forms an emotional relationship with a chatbot thing to accomplish with a dating app? Most likely would only induce further despair because he would get few, if any, likes.