Well, you could have started a legitimate conversation here about commitment or gender roles or whatever it is "blackpilled" means. With a genuinely diplomatic attitude and some nuance in your presentation you can broach most topics on here without getting too many downvotes.
I heard it suggested that we honklers should take a more conciliatory approach. They fear the chuds, but in fact we have good things to offer. We can help make things better. Just listen