Not your parent but I think that is exactly the point lots of people here are making.
There definitely are niches where there are quite a few performance optimization opportunities that users do care about.
In your example making something a user is actively waiting for go from 3 seconds to less than one is a great optimization target. What is not a great optimization target is making something the user is actively waiting for and that takes 30ms take 25ms instead. That's wasted money on developer time.
If your "user" is a developer of embedded software with memory constraints and using your library leaves them more room that's awesome. If your user was someone using the library on a general purpose computing device with loads of memory then the 2 vs. 5 does nothing.