what you're calling "wildly detached from reality" .. crazy insane, unworkable things like, building safe bike lanes, and designing streets to lower the speed of cars, and having houses close to local businesses so you can do normal stuff without a car .. uniformly where those things are implemented, my life is better, and where they aren't implemented, my life is worse. I can literally feel my mood rising and falling as I go to and from the different areas of the city with people-centric infra vs car-centric infra.
my quality of life varies in direct inverse proportion to how much I have to deal with fast-moving car traffic. which one of us is "detached from reality" again?
Local Shops, people centric, walking and biking none of those things appeal to me.
I want large shops where I can buy 2 weeks of provisions, and possibly even lumber for my next home improvement project all in one stop, and not have to go to a store again for weeks.
I do not have the desire to walk, or bike, or ebike... and even if I did the vast many months of the year when it is below freezing and ice covered surfaces would make that dangerous.
When I do have to venture into the more "people centric" i.e walkable areas of my city I can literally feel my mood falling as I know I will have to hunt for parking and then walk many blocks to my destination.
Your quote, emphasis mine.
another example: the law says you need to build X amount of car parking spaces in a development, but demands no amenities for cycle storage. or, this[2] disgusting litany of regulatory excuses for why a pedestrian crossing outside a school wasn't allowed be made safer, because nothing can be allowed to reduce traffic speed.
furthermore, in some places the law as written really does de facto criminalize safe cycling. for instance, requiring that cyclists never stray out of the bike lane, even when it contains dangerous obstructions[3]. or, traffic lights that don't detect cyclists, so the lights stay red forever, so it's impossible to proceed without either breaking the law or waiting for a car to come up behind you and trigger the sensor. there are many cases like this -- the law doesn't literally say "you can't cycle", but following the law rules out cycling in any safe and practical sense.
and then there's the absurd fake crime of "jaywalking" ...
[1] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FlApbxLz6pA
[2] https://twitter.com/LoganTMillsap/status/1583247772509032448