Maybe countries and states should choose based on how far north or south they are because that seems to be a key factor for how useful DST is?
But beyond that I don't fully understand all the complaints specifically about changing. It's an hour shift twice a year? Maybe I get slightly worse sleep for a day or two but then I am fine. It's no different than changing one time zone while traveling. People travel all the time cross country or over the Atlantic or Pacific and that's a much bigger shift in time yet they're all able to cope? I don't see articles regularly decrying the health disaster of jetlag, so what is it about changing the clocks that really gets people worked up?