We are still better than an LLM, collectively. The best programmer is still miles ahead of GPT, the best writer can write something that make GPT look like a child learning the alphabet, etc. So we can still train it using the data from all of humanity.
But if we aren't here, then the best an AI can train is a copy of itself. There are already discussions about where to get more authentic data to train the next generation of LLMs when so much of the internet might have been saturated with AI generated content.
They're a product of trial and error.
LLMs are not particularly good at reasoning. They can't make experiments. They can't look up the information in their weights (because no text on the internet has that information).
For these reasons they are not likely to be good at designing new LLMs.
"Better" is pretty vague, but "more capable" would be difficult, because I don't think ChatGPT has a good idea of its own capabilities.
But they can't be the only part. New models must be evaluated on many different kinds of tasks. And if current models fails at a task, how can they evaluate new models on that task accurately?