Navidrome: https://www.navidrome.org/
+
Ultrasonic: https://gitlab.com/ultrasonic/ultrasonic
+
Sonixd https://github.com/jeffvli/sonixd
+ DynDNS
+ Let's Encrypt
Combo does work nicely for me
Or
MPD in satellite mode https://www.musicpd.org/ + MPDroid https://github.com/abarisain/dmix/wiki also does great job at streaming music