When people say "main character", what exactly do they mean? I've never heard this term outside of literary criticism before.
Although we are each usually the 'main character' of our own story, we typically know that we are not "the main character" of the world broadly. Some people act in ways that suggest they may not understand the difference. People refer to them as having "main character syndrome."
I think usage has drifted since then to "the person everyone is talking about."