Your 100% right that living on Mars right now is going to suck. A lot. As the "man boy" said before, there is a good chance that the first people on Mars will just die.
If they don't die they will have a very hard life. If they manage to survive and get back they will probably have lasting health effects.
And the next several expeditions to Mars will likely be the same.
The _hope_ is that after X number of expeditions we will start to build something that resembles hospitability. Eventually that might even lead to growth.
Will we success? Who knows. But if we take your "man boy" approach then we'll for sure be stuck here forever until we get hit by an asteroid or something else.