It's interesting. Is it dreams? If so, are they dreams unsettling enough that they look to us for reassurance/comfort, or are we just anthropomorphising?
There are "captive" pets living in cages or other enclosures that might be a bit more dicey, but cats and dogs are probably a pretty poor example to get upset about.
another point is also their environmental footprint (20% of meat and fish production, many services and indirect pollution, impact on birds, lezards, etc..)
(I'm being pedantic but that'd suit my narrative, I'm mostly vegan and I'm easily annoyed by people with pets)
One of them found me when I was walking in a nearby semi-rural neighborhood. He was about five weeks old, sitting on a fence, scared and hungry, mewing for help.
It was around dusk, the time of day when the crows and ravens and owls and other predators start looking for tasty little snacks like him.
I brought him home, gave him a bath and got the fleas off him, then took him to the vet where they gave him medication for his ear mites and worms.
The other was rescued from a similar situation by someone who brought her to Pets In Need, our local no-kill shelter, where I adopted her.
They are very happy here. They have good friends (each other and me) to play with and sleep with, tasty food that they don't have to fight to the death, and no risk of being swept up by a hungry bird.
One time as I was walking in the door, a raven started making a loud ruckus outside. Both kitties had a panicked look. They remember what their life was like as wild animals. When they saw me they felt safe and happy again.
this is a projection of your feelings
It's a bit disturbing how pets became sort of toys and fashion objects
Let alone, there are many environmental issues (20% of global meat/fish, all services linked to them), a pet owner is rarely using a bicyle, but more a car etc..
For me it's a bit like a beautiful flower outside, should I cut it to bring it home with me? or should I just observe it there and leave it for others durably, for insects mostly?
Choosing dogs or cats as pets is probably the worst choices in terms of sustainability
The total weight of pet dogs is higher than all other wild mammals, this is just shocking https://wis-wander.weizmann.ac.il/environment/weight-respons..., not even talking about livestocks which are 10 times higher mass than wild animals, and serve for 20% to pets food. The amount and type of pets is pure destruction and nonsense
I hope that one day this will happen. It will transform your life.
The love you're talking about is based on food, stop feeding him and open an exit, and see for how long he'll stay.
That's a bit like saying a wife is loving me, but I have to buy her lots of things continually, this kind of love would suck no?