You’re stuck with openai, and you’re stuck with whatever rules, limitations or changes they give you.
There are other models, but specifically if you’re actively using gpt-4 and find gpt-3.5 to be below the quality you require…
Too bad. You’re out of luck.
Wait for better open source models or wait patiently for someone to release a meaningful competitor, or wait for openai to release a better version.
That’s it. Right now, there’s no one else letting people have access to their models which are equivalent to gpt-4.