Why should the affected groups, or society at large, accept this? Why shouldn't we band together to try to make things fair in light of this fact?
> It's also kinda racist.
Can you explain why? You cited MLK Jr. earlier. He didn't think that AA is racist. Where do you disagree with his position?
> This is one of the valid reasons to discuss race. However, I do not see why this means people need "help". What kind of help? How are you going to help? I still have no answers.
No, you've gotten answers, you just don't like them. I've explained pretty clearly why this means people need "help", what kind of help and so on.