In the same way some people may be mad at Trump but more mad at an abusive parent, yes. Maybe Trump even personally influenced that parent to be what they are today, but I don't think that it's a controversial statement to suggest that many people can't properly scale powers and chains of responsibility in their heads.

Even if they do, it may not matter. One is doing immediate, local damage and you'll probably never be in a state to singlehandedly usurp Trump (ignoring for a fact that crow eating is imminent).better to deal with the local problem even if we could objectively agree that Trump has done more damage to a society.