I actually hadn’t noticed that HN is dorky/abusive.
See what happens when you go against the cultural grain around here, man.
Or maybe I'm the only one experiencing it... But it's not all the time, or else I would stop commenting altogether.
(FWIW, the challenge you just made is reasonable and not any sort of abuse.)
Or the use of words like disingenuous or orthogonal? I mean I keep coming back, but there is a distinctive 'flavor' of discourse (for lack of a better word) here.