My grandma and grandpa had… regularly scheduled bridge night with the neighbors and shit like that.
I'm saying that using TV and movies as a reference for what real life was like in those times (or any time) may not be the best idea.
Now obviously it is explained in universe (it is a rent controlled flat of Monica’s grandma), and the explanation out of universe is clear too (easier to produce the show on a spacious set, and looks better too). But it would kinda mislead you if you take it to show how a chef and waiter realistically used to live in the 90s of NYC.
Every afternoon my grandma played parchís (a Spanish board game) with her neighbors and my aunts. During the winter they instead would knit together.